Newton’s Third Law of physics states that “For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.” This, of course, applies to
science which in turn means it applies to life. If a person
wants success in life, one first must be willing to put forth the effort to cause a
reaction. Doing so may not always be
easy, but with the right motivation it is definitely possible.
So, today at practice I took my team
into a classroom and gave them a pen and paper. Next, I asked them to
answer two questions. First, I asked, “Why do you get out of bed in the
morning?” I instructed them to put some thought into this, considering
what might be the drive or motivation to start their day. The second
question I asked them, “What is YOUR definition of success?”
I get out of bed every morning, and
more often than not it is to do my first workout of the day. But, why do
I work out? Because I have athletic goals and other life goals that I
believe working out will lead me closer to achieving. I have been posting
my goals since I was in high school. I believe having a direction is
vital.
If I gave two of my athletes a map
of a cross country course, I am confident they could find their way around the
course even if it is not marked, completing a 5K. On the other hand, if I
told two other athletes to run a 5K on a blank course without a map or GPS,
they would have no idea and only by luck would they stand a chance of achieving
the goal of knowing where to go. A goal is a map, a direction to where
you are trying to get. As a coach, I see athletes who succeed and others
who do not. The number of athletes who struggled and did not have success
almost always had the necessary talent yet lacked the direction, the focus, or
the plan to achieve success. “Success is the completion of one's goals
and is a never ending process where one must continually be setting new goals
and moving forward.” This is what I wrote when I asked myself the second
question.
Watch the news for 15 minutes, and
there will be a story of rags to riches or vice versa. In today's
society, we are money hungry and consumed by what financial security can bring
us. However, success should not be pinned to a dollar amount, but instead
it should mean achieving one's goals. The fifth grade teacher who stays
late to help a student with the basics of math and sees success will be as
happy as someone who finishes their first marathon that they set out to do.
After reading through the answers
given by my athletes, I was encouraged. Their responses, of course,
reflected that they have individual goals as I had hoped, and that each new day
provides new opportunities or is a day closer to reaching their goals.
However, I couldn't help but think how many times it seems that some of my
athletes have gotten up and not felt this motivation or drive. If they
would just have these questions answered and then write out clearly defined goals
in plain sight, they might be more driven to succeed. Newton's law might
also apply to the force pushing you back into bed. This is the moment
when one has to work up the courage to meet this action with an equal reaction
and get going. So when you are looking
to accomplish more you must be willing to put in more effort, as a larger
reaction only comes as a result of a larger action.
As with many of my posts, I
challenge you to answer these two fundamental questions and to use your answers
as a map to achieve what it is that you have been sent here to achieve. I
am 100% confident that God has put me here and you here as well for a reason.
It's time to stop putting off life and time to strive to achieve success.